Lessons from driving a Porsche
Let me tell you a story.
12 months ago I drove to a beautiful little village in the heart of a valley.
To get in and out of that valley, I needed to drive an unfamiliar path; 10kms of steep, narrow, winding roads.
Now, I consider myself a competent driver and have had my licence for decades.
But this road was different, it was unpleasant.
My stomach was in my throat. The roads were narrow. The cliff was steep. The gutter seemed so close. Inches away from peril at every turn. And yet the locals were flying around it without a care in the world.
I wondered how could they live here and traverse these roads every day?
What was I doing wrong?
Should I give up my licence simply because of this one stretch of road I find tricky? Of course not.
It really took the shine of this quaint little village trip. Yet I knew I wanted to return.
But should I? With that road? Really? I must admit, if I did return, I wouldn't be looking forward to it.
Yet back I went, and this time... I took a Porsche.
The result?
The road was still the same, just as I remembered it. Just a narrow, just as steep, just as windy.
But some how I drifted around the corners smoother, I powered up the hills like they didn't exist, I jauntily waved to the locals as I glided by (ok I made that last bit up)
The lesson:
Don't shy away from your challenges. The more you do something you will get better at it, with or without help.
But the lesson from driving a Porsche:
With the right tool, your progress through those same challenges will skyrocket, and they can even be fun.
The right tool empowers you. It builds your self confidence, your self belief, even your self image. It helps you regain control and enjoy the ride.
I'm not advocating for luxuries you can't afford, or promoting happiness only through material gain.
The reality is there are situations when a Porsche would actually hinder your progress. Times when your trusty 15 year old Toyota Hilux would be the correct tool for the job.
What I'm doing is letting you know there are tools out there built to help you with your particular challenging stretch of road.
What are some of those tools?
Friends.
Books.
People who’ve travelled the road before you.
Therapists.
Coaches.
Tools that help you navigate your specific challenges, whether that’s:
Confidence
Weight loss
Anger management
Intimacy
Business
Entrepreneurship
Journaling
Marriage
Time management
Saying no
Parenting kids with additional needs
Body image
Mindset
Leadership
Navigating grief
…and more.
I’m not telling you you have to work with me.
I simply hope this nudges you to look honestly at your tricky stretch of road and explore what tool might support you right now.
How do I help?
I'm a coach who, like the Porsche, helps you gain confidence and feel in control.
I don't make the road flat for you, I empower you to go up the hills.
I don't straighten the road for you, I help you enjoy the corners.
I don't widen the road, I help you gain a broader perspective.
Some of the tools I offer are free. Some require an investment.
All of them are designed to help you take the scary part out of the drive.
Bellow are some tools that are available to you this week.
Feel free to avail yourself of them, ask questions, and take one for a drive.
Steph
Your Personal Coach
This weeks tools for you:
Improve Your Productivity + Focus Workspace — Free
A dedicated space to get a task done with like-minded people.
Perfect if you need motivation, accountability, or help keeping your mind from wandering.
Pairs beautifully with the Friday planning workshop.
Monday 24th Nov, 2–4pm AEST
Free via Zoom from anywhere.
Click HERE to join
Interactive Weekly Planning Workshop — Free
A two-hour guided planning session.
Close out your week, enter your weekend relaxed, and know everything is done or scheduled.
Friday 28th Nov, 2–4pm AEST
Free via Zoom from anywhere.
Click HERE to join.
Finish The Year Strong — One-on-One Workshop — Free (1 spot left)
End the year with clarity, energy, and direction.
A fun, interactive session to reset and refocus.
Saturday 29th Nov, 9am AEST (90mins)
One spot available.
Book via the link HERE — or just reply to this email.
One-on-One Personalised Coaching — Investment Required (Consult Free)
Custom packages available for your personal goals.
Find your focus, understand what you need, and see whether coaching is right for you — no pressure, no obligation.
Find out more and book HERE